Listening to Tegan & Sara - Call It Off - and thinking of my sister's situation...she just broke off her engagement and wedding.  It's so heartbreaking and sad.  I wish I knew what to do, what to say.  I knew it wouldn't really hit her until her stuff was out of his place.  That happened last night.

I can't get into it all here.  It's not really my place.  We all know it was the right thing.  But there are no words for how she must feel - and certainly how I feel and my parents feel - knowing she's falling apart and her vision, her happy future has all fallen and gone up in smoke.  It's hard to see the hope though through the dark black smoke.